asking for help with creating tools

I'm creating custom tools on forge 1.20.1 and I'm running into several problems: 1. The sword breaks in creative mode. 2. the axe works like a shovel (by unscrewing the value of the extraction speed, it is applied to all blocks, however, by an unknown miracle, the axe may not extract stone like a pickaxe, but digs up the ground too quickly like a shovel) 3. The durability of the axe does not decrease in any way when using it 4. trying to make an axe like in vanilla, so that it can to deal damage, I do not know how to make the attack speed lower than the sword.  At the moment, I've settled on making an axe, but I still have a shovel, a pickaxe, and a hoe ahead of me. can you tell me how to make all these tools correct without the above and other similar errors?