Gradle loading randomly stops (and lags computer)

(This is related to this issue I made a while back, probably should mention that)

So after the previous issue I experienced with gradle, I waited for 2021.1 to come out to see if my problems would be fixed.
And... they did not.
It's not as bad as how it was before updating, but when loading the gradle, I experienced two seperate problems on two seperate tries of loading the gradle:

-An error occurred even though it was going completely fine, and there wasn't any explanation either

-The loading froze completely without any pop-ups and lagged my computer very badly (to the point of having to restart it)

My PC definitely isn't the best, but it's still decent, so these things shouldn't be happening. I'd really like a way to fix this, if possible.